6 weeks
to return to yourself.
An initiation, not a program. Held in an intimate group that feels as close to 1:1 depth work as a container can get, blending psychoanalytic and somatic therapeutic coaching with energy work, in love, money, lineage, and the body, together, in real time.
Why this container exists
For almost a decade I have held space for women moving through the same threshold, the moment you stop carrying the role you were taught, and start becoming who you actually are.
Becoming-Women is not a class. It is a container, six weeks, held live, where we work through the patterns that keep repeating, in love, in money, in the body, in the family line, until they no longer have to.
Think of it as an incubator, a place to manifest whatever your inner woman desires, and to sink fully into your own inner work until you walk away with results you can actually feel.
You will not leave with a worksheet. You will leave reborn.
An intimate, small group.
Six weeks, held closely.
Each week meets you exactly where you are. I stay closely tuned to the group throughout, in our chat and in the room itself, and the path adapts as we go, curated week to week for what this circle actually needs. What's below is roughly the shape of it, the order may shift once the group forms.
This is the week the noise finally quiets enough to hear yourself. We open as a circle, meet each other, and step into what this new time is asking of the Woman of the New Time now waking up in you. Together we set collective intentions and get honest about what you truly desire, beneath everything you were taught to want. You'll be guided into a visualization to meet your own feminine essence, and reconnect to the life force and vitality that come simply from being a woman. This is also where we quietly begin to cultivate self-love, and initiate you into your own process of self-healing.
Bonus: a 40-day practice, sensed and chosen by Kate for exactly what this group is carrying beneath the surface.
This week we go straight to the root: what you inherited from the women who came before you, the patterns living in your body long before you had a say in them. We meet the archetypes quietly running the show, the martyr and the hyper-independent one among them, and begin to loosen their grip.
Your body has been trying to tell you something for a long time. This week, we listen, and meet the archetype of the Over-Functioner, the woman who learned to override her own signals just to keep going. In our practice session we focus on hormonal health and revitalizing the whole system, and I'll teach you the psychosomatics behind it, how unprocessed emotional and energetic blocks quietly show up as physical malfunction, and over time, illness. Through tantric and Daoist practice, we release the constriction the body has been holding, so it can finally exhale.
This week is about understanding the masculine, not the performative version, but the real one: how men love, commit, and pull away. We talk about relationships and communication, meet the archetypes that quietly contribute to the downfall of connection (the Good Girl among them), and begin healing the attachment patterns that no longer serve you.
Bonus: a session with a male guest, speaking candidly from the other side, about what men actually experience and rarely say out loud.
This is the week you come back into your body instead of narrating it from the outside. Tantric sexuality becomes a portal into desire and embodied confidence, and we travel into the mysteries of women's desire, unpacking the history of women's sexuality and everything it has been taught to hide. We work directly with the shame and disconnection that shaped your relationship to intimacy, and begin to undo it.
Money might be the most spiritual topic there is. This week we explore the energetics of money, the Keys to Success, and what actually makes money stay, grow, and multiply, versus what quietly makes it run away. In our practice session, we look at your own personal blockages around receiving, and begin building real prosperity, not by hustling harder, but by becoming a woman who is aligned and open enough to hold it.
Everything you have
for six weeks and after.
Weekly Group Coaching
Two hours together every Tuesday, held live, no pre-recorded modules standing in for real presence.
Weekly Practice Session
A dedicated somatic and Kundalini session every Thursday, to move what the calls bring up through the body.
The full practice booklet
A 100+ page ritual and practice guide: homework and resources to work with between sessions.
EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique)
Guided EFT, tapping, sessions to release emotional and energetic blocks from the body as they surface.
Guided Family Constellations
A dedicated session working directly with the lineage patterns still running underneath your life.
A private Telegram community
The group between sessions, for the insights, the questions, and the women you'll recognize yourself in.
Every session recorded
If you miss a live call, or want to return to one, the full recording is yours to keep and revisit.
Kate Shiloh
Kate Shiloh is a women's mentor, Kundalini teacher, and family constellations facilitator of Ukrainian descent. Her work centers on female lineage, inherited trauma, and ancestral healing.
Her approach is rooted in psychosomatic healing and years of academic research into cultural and inherited trauma, as well as direct study with teachers from her own Slavic tradition. She works with women privately and in community, helping them move out of inherited patterns and into a destiny of their own making.
What women carry out
of this container.
In a world full of coaches who market well but bypass their own shadows, Kate is the real deal. Becoming-Women was astronomical for me, I experienced a cellular shift, and felt an influx of momentum and opportunities my nervous system could finally hold.
Every week was dedicated to a theme, and it wove into my personal life in a way that transformed and matured me: relationships, money, ancestral and shadow work, creativity.
I feel so much more grounded in my own body, in my own self. I feel confident and radiant, and I make incredible connections to others because of what comes from inside of me now.
The Kundalini and tantric practices kept me grounded, regulated, and open hearted, paired with deep reflections that sparked real inquiry into what it means to be a woman.
The daily practice and the Kundalini classes catapulted me into a new dimension of my life. My nervous system feels much happier. I found my way back to myself.
Everything you need
to say yes.
Becoming-Women
This is not a course to complete and forget. It is an initiation, six weeks held as a rebirth, where the mask can come off, where the body is allowed to speak before the mind interrupts it, and where you are witnessed exactly as you are. Here, womanhood stops being a role to survive and becomes a continuous celebration. What you release here does not come back. What you reclaim here opens a life filled with wonder, and new ways of relating, to money, to your body, to romance, to yourself.